It's time that you're honest with yourself and admit that you're not having the best sex of your life. If you were, you wouldn't be surfing the internet all damn day. But your lackluster intercourse stops here. I'm going to do my one good deed for the day and personally deliver Stella's groove.

Here are 8 quick tips to accomplish great sex

1. DON'T SHOW OUT

This is not a contest nor a performance. Of course your partner wants you to give it all you got but don't force things. That's when things get lame.

2. IT'S OKAY TO TALK

Tell bae what you want and ask them what they want. You can't just assume they'll like it there lol.

3. CHECK YOUR INSECURITIES

It's okay to be insecure, that's life but don't go into sex wearing a turtleneck and begging to turn all the lights off. It's just weird.

4. SET THE MOOD

You don't have to have a sex playlist made and strawberries on the bedside but do simple things to get the juices flowing. Light a candle, watch a little porn, smoke some weed etc.

5. BE MINDFUL AND CONSIDERATE

This should be self explanatory. Just remember that that other person is a human being. Don't use teeth… don't pull out her lace front weave. Common courtesy.

6. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

Don't assume your partner will have protection. Ultimate buzz kill if they don't. And if you go ahead and have sex anyways without it (which you absolutely shouldn't) you're going to be extremely paranoid during, after, and till you get tested.

7. GO TO YOUR HAPPY PLACE

Mentally tap into your fantasies. You don't have to actually have sex on the beach to have sex on the beach. Say it with me now… IMAGINATION.

8. RELAX

If you're uncomfortable it's okay to stop things but if you're in it to win it you got to shake the nerves. Don't make things awkward because you look like a deer caught in headlights.